CAN YOU RELATE?
As much as we love our kids, the truth is, they have a dramatic way of getting in the way of our connection with our partner.
You're busy working, and she's busy being engrossed with the children.
And now it feels like the two of you are just ships in the night. You're doing the parenting part really well, but what about the marriage part?
If you're anything like me, I could imagine you're feeling pretty disconnected from her and you can't seem to change the tide.
I HAVE SOMETHING THAT CAN HELP YOU.
As a Dad to two young boys, I'm very aware of how young children throw a wrench into things for our marriages.
This is why I've created the 8-day Black Belt Husband New Dad 8-day Masterclass.
It's 8-days of educational material and at-home exercises to address the mots important challenges that new Dad's face in their marriages.
8-days of new information and material to help change the tide in your relationship.
8-DAYS OF TEACHING ON RELATIONSHIPS
8-DAYS OF AT-HOME ASSIGNMENTS
A detailed look at what really happens for couples when they introduce children. This will be a fresh and new perspective and why things are the way they are.
We'll take a look at the shifting identities as new parents and how these new identities have a big impact on all marriages. Most importantly, we'll learn what to do to make it better.
In this segment, we'll take a look at what we can do to maintain that ever so important emotional connection with our partner, even with all the new roles as new parents.
Sex? Who has time for it?! In this section, we'll talk about why sex is important and what we can do to re-establish the sexual connection in a win-win way that works for both of you.
With all the pressures and demands that come with young children, we neglect ourselves in the process. In this section, I'll show you ways to balance self-care and convince you that it's essential to your marriage that you do a good job at being good to yourself.
We're sleep-deprived, run-down, and just cranky. Fights are happening and sometimes it gets ugly. In this section, I'll give you some helpful insights to take your fights from "Code-Red" to talking peacefully about what's really bothering you.
There's something about in-laws that can sometimes drive us nuts, and unfortunately drive a wedge between partners. This section will be geared to understanding why we fight about our in-laws and what we can do to come together as a couple instead.
This will be our closing chapter for the workshop and we'll talk about why all of this matters anyway and we'll learn to see that what we're doing matters immenseley to the future of the world (having bedrock families). What an honor to participate in something so grand.
My wife and I have had our share of ups and downs and our transition to parenthood definitely wasn't smooth sailing.
Sleep depreivation. More arguments. Less sex. Ugh....
So, I began reading, and reading, and reading nearly every book and article on the transition to parenthood. I learned so much about this stage of life.
And over time....it became a bit of a personal mission to share with others all of the information I gathered.
And now, a big portion of my counseling practice is helping new Dads get their marriages in a better place.
I simply want to share with you what I learned.
What can I expect to be different after doing the Masterclass?
That's a great question. What I can guarantee you is this: You'll learn a ton of stuff about having a successful marriage with young children. If you take the Masterclass seriously and work through the at-home exercises, your marriage will be in a better place after 8-days. If it's not better, I'll refund you!
Do I need my wife to participate with me in the Masterclass?
Nope! That's the cool part. I've made this Masterclass just for guys to do solo. However, I do offer some at-home exercises that you can do with your wife if she wants to participate with you, but it's definitely not essential and totally optional.
What if I don't like it?
Hey, I totally get that it's not for everyone. No hard feelings. If for whatever reason, you're not feeling it, just email me to cancel within 48 hours of the start and I'll refund all your money. No questions asked. How can you lose?
But doesn't my wife need to work on her part too?
She does. Absolutely. But here's the cool thing about this Masterclass: If you digest the material and do all of the at-home exercises, I'm convinced that by the end of 8-days your relationship will start to feel different and your wife just might feel way more cool to be around - because of all the changes you did! Positive change promotes positive change.
"Quentin's explaination about things going on with my wife and I were very helpful!"
"Quentin helped me feel less crazy! I am more equipped to strive towards a better relationship with my spouse. Quentin is genuine, truthful with his words, funny and very insightful."
"I can't say enough good things about this Masterclass. It really was enlightening."
"It was super helpful to take his Masterclass. I learned a bunch of stuff I had no idea about!"
"Quentin is a Dad that gets it with Dad stuff. This masterclass was very helpful."